I find the term weeaboo and Wapanese very offensive.

But if we don't have terms to unite us under we can't be considered part of a sub-culture. Though I know many nerd groups don't want this thing called unity. Personally I don't myself conider it offensive to me, but this antagonism isn't good. I understand we will always be picked on by outsiders who don't understand us, but it doesn't feel good to be hated because i have certain interests that are Japanese related.